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Welcome to communication with Kelly ,

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your primary prevention specialist here

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at the 1 74th . My background is in the

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dark side of relationships . So ,

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jealousy , unrequited , love and

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abuse , abuse is complex but rooted in

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power and control . It can manifest as

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physical violence , sexual violence ,

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stalking and psychological aggression .

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The number one indicator that a

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relationship is abusive is isolation .

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So what can you do in your

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relationships to make sure they are

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healthy ? One socialize , spend

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time with your family and friends

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outside of your romantic relationship .

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Two maintain separate finances if you

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wish to blend your assets , speak with

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a financial advisor . Three express

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your concerns . View your partner as a

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problem solver , not the problem and

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four maintain privacy . It is an act

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and trust . Those are just a few

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helpful Tbis to make sure your

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relationship is healthy .